Mothers

Hmmm....I'm new to this but here goes
I was browsing blogs and came across the quotes on the Micus blog about mothers. These quotes really had me thinking, mostly because I am nowhere near motherhood and so it is not a topic I usually spend my time thinking about. So....here ya go.

"The duties of the mother begin in the morning; they end not with the day; they incessantly call upon her till she reaches the grave. Others may have a respite; others may for a time throw off care, and anxiety, and responsibility. But the mother can never do so. She must be unwearied and faithful when no eye sees her to applaud; must sow her seed when she sees no immediate prospect of a harvest; must expect no return and no reward for her labours for years, and it may be, for life. She can adopt no theory which is not to be reduced to immediate and constant practice. How can she have this faith, and this perseverance, unless she be in the habit of communion with God? The Bible and prayer must be her strength and her weapons. With these, she can carry her babes through the deserts where fiery serpents beset her path, and they shall not be bitten. Without these, she has all the sorrows and anxieties God bestows in answer to prayer. Do you wish a wisdom that profitable to direct - a patience that never forsakes you - a firmness that never leaves you - a faith that always bears you upwards and onward, looking for your rewards hereafter - you must seek these by prayer. Without this, you can neither govern yourself, no your child, nor persevere. How can a mother train up her child for God? She must be a woman of prayer - of daily, fervent, habitual prayer - because: she needs wisdom, self-discipline, must be decided and she must persevere. May we not fear that there are too many who profess to be Christians, who, day by day, go no further in their views than merely to train up their children for the earth? Here, then, I take my stand: and here I feel the real dignity of the mother to begin - for God hath committed to her hands the keeping and the molding of a spirit which may for ever rise up in glory and light. The great object before the mother, then, is to train up her child for eternity - the service and presence of God to everlasting ages." (1800's, Truth Made Simple by John Todd)

"It should be understood that for every wife the first duty is the making and keeping of her own home. Her first and best work should be done there, and till it is well done she has no right to go outside to take up other duties. She is to be a ‘worker at home.’ She must look upon her home as the one spot on earth for which she alone is responsible, and which she must cultivate well for God if she never does anything outside."

Now, here’s where you’ll hear that this came from the 1800s. This writer says,

"For the Father’s business [that’s capital “F”—Father, God—His business] is not attending Dorcas societies and missionary meetings, and mothers’ meetings, and temperance conventions, or even teaching a Sunday school class, until she has made her own home all that her wisest thought and best skill can make it.
There have been wives who in their zeal for Christ’s work outside have neglected Christ’s work inside their own doors. They have had eyes and hearts for human need and human sorrow in the broad fields lying far out, but neither eye nor heart for the work of love about their own feet.
The result has been that while they were doing angelic work in the lanes and streets, the angels were mourning over their neglected duties within the hallowed walls of their own homes. While they were winning a place in the hearts of the poor or the sick or the orphan, they were losing their rightful place in the hearts of their own household.
Let it be remembered that Christ’s work in the home is the first that he gives to every wife, and that no amount of consecrated activities in other spheres will atone in this world or the next for neglect or failure there (pp. 67-68)."
I've never thought about it quite to this extent before, but it makes perfect sense! Of course it is such an important role! Still have alot to think on, but I wanted to share these quotes.